做愛，汽水與吸管。

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其實我不應該寫這篇的。不管是我的身分還是立場，我覺得這篇是在替我自掘墳墓。

我以為，普通情形下，女人的『價值』就跟汽水一樣。隨著時間越久，越沒氣就越沒價值。
當然有人愛喝沒氣的糖水；也不是每個女人都像汽水– 有一些像普洱茶，越老越值錢。
應該沒有一個女人不會不希望自己被男人捧在手心裡吧?
世界上，也應該有這樣的女人。如果有一天讓她遇見了一個Mr.Right，而Mr.Right 又願意把她捧在掌心，她願意把自己交給他。
我常以為，有一些寂寞空虛的女人，只要有一個男人對她好，把她捧在手裡，女人就會變成寶特瓶汽水，讓男人把女人瓶蓋打開，讓男人的吸管插進瓶子裡。
男人可能會喝飽了，不管汽水瓶裡還剩多少，就拋到垃圾桶了。
男人可能會喝飽了，不管汽水瓶裡還剩多少，就丟在一旁，汽水瓶就只好等下一個人把她撿起來喝。
男人可能會喝飽了，看看汽水瓶裡還有剩下，就問還有沒有人要喝?
男人可能會喝飽了，看看汽水瓶裡還有剩下，就『好東西與好朋友分享』。
男人可能會喝飽了，就關上瓶蓋，帶回家冰在冰箱繼續喝。
男人可能會喝光了，可能隨手就把瓶子扔了。
男人可能會喝光了，可能還會把瓶子留下來做紀念。
但是重點是，男人喝完了這一瓶汽水，會不會再去買下一瓶汽水? 會吧?!
甚至還有可能一次買了好幾瓶回家。
我是男人，我也會想和不同的女孩子上床銷魂。
只是我實在不知道我有沒有立場這樣說?
『我只跟男朋友做愛』又怎樣? 交了作，作完又分，再交一個，作完又分了，然後再交一個…
這樣會比玩一夜情高明嗎? 在我看來，玩一夜情的女人至少心理更清楚他要的是什麼?
以為自己每段都付出了真感情，誰知道『男朋友』心裡真正在想啥? 不覺得這樣的『真感情』很可笑嗎?
現在的人誰不寂寞? 誰不希望心靈與身體都能得到安慰?
只是能不能不要這麼寧爛勿缺? 男人不是呆子，所以女人也不要把自己自願當傻瓜。
女人啊，不要為了一個『愛』字就把自己當成寶特瓶汽水。不要忘了剩半瓶的汽水也是會沒氣的。
唉，我想我會被砲轟的很慘很慘了。我知道這不是普遍的現象，我只是把我看到的一些故事發表我的感想罷了。

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  3. riGhT riGhT riGht, i agree it!!
    i think most of the lady will agree ur command~~ gambatte yaH ~
    but.. i onlY maKe loVe wiTh mY bF~, he is the first and the last~ *^.~

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  4. after read ur consider as an ideology …. emm ya mayb sum of the gal is like tat .. but wat 2 do when the luv is in front of u …. u wont think n sum time cannot think too much …. coz u ady been cover up by sort call ‘ luv ‘ but …….. however i do believe tat …. if u reli like the boy …. n u think u ady put efford in tat relationship … then no matter the result is happy or sad … dont ever let urself keep in the past … muz over come it k !

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  6. i agree u.. when a gal getting older n not marry yet, if a guy (good looking) appear in front of her n show interest in her..she just grab the chance (no matter the guy just interest her body only)..u know why? it is because she feel lonely when her age getting older and see all the friends around her are married…but after she been with the guy mentioned…she feel alone again..not only in sexual lust and soul too..coz she hard to find true love eventhough she had try for it..here i wish that all da gal don’t give up…maybe the next true love is waiting for u.

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  10. I agree too. I think most of girls sure take additon went they face with a guy. I not saying that everyone is a bad gyus lah but in ture tis world hide too many then face look like “gentleman” but who’s know wat the ture thing they thinking behind the face? I agree went a lonely women were lost their mind went face infront love, they were give anything if they think it’s the ture love they looking for. But sadly this world hide too many bad gyus with gentleman face and many girl has already fall in their trap but they belive if they give anything to someone and finaly they were get the ture love for the gyus. I not saying this world no have ture love but who know how many people has injured went face with love and how many people can finaly find their ture love. That ‘s no telling us wat happend the next but belive then that’s a Mr.right waiting u somewhere in this world.

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  13. I AGREE, I AM A MAN ALSO WANT WITH MANY GIRL MAKE LOVE, AFTER THAT I WILL SAY GOOD BYE TO HER . BUT I DO NOT THINK IS THAT SHE WILL BE HEART OR NOT . SO I AGREE IF STILL TOUNG WE MUST PLAY WHAT WE WANT . AFTER WE ALREADY OLD WE WILL DID NOT HAVE CHANGE TO PLAY AGAIN . ARE U AGREEE . ((( SORRY TO ALL LADY ))

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  14. i agree with ur explaination but i strongly disagree my boy friend make love with another girl…this is not a business i wish for my bf…til now,my bf never complain my presentation in our love making…he is high n high n high when he is make love with me…he owest said that i m a bad gal bcoz owest make him cannot control himself to stop fucking me…i love to fuck with him…he also..

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